Is Accountability Killing Your Culture—or Fueling It?
Wednesday, October 22, 2025 - Joe Kiedinger
Let’s face it—“accountability” has developed a bit of a negative reputation. When people hear, “I’m holding you accountable,” it can sound harsh, even punitive. But when we really examine the word, it turns out to be the secret ingredient to a healthy, thriving workplace culture.
Think about it: accountability is really two words—account and ability. That simple breakdown can shift our entire mindset. It means evaluating someone based on their ability—their natural talents and learned skills. Seen this way, accountability isn’t about punishment; it’s about alignment.
True accountability requires leaders to go beyond surface-level expectations and take ownership of understanding their people—both their innate gifts and their professional capabilities. As Einstein famously said, “If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”
This means leaders must recognize what internally motivates each individual. If someone’s role demands a high level of organization, but they aren’t wired that way, the result is predictable: stress, burnout, and poor performance. But if that same task is given to someone who thrives in structured environments, they come alive. Complex projects energize them. Their work has meaning.
Too often, leaders assign goals without considering whether the person has the ability—or the experience—to succeed. This mismatch creates anxiety not just for the individual, but for the whole team.
Leadership requires self-reflection. Ask yourself:
- Is this person operating from their strengths?
- Are their struggles a sign of misalignment rather than lack of effort?
Holding someone “in account of their ability” means being honest, real, and compassionate. When that conversation happens—leader to team member—both walk away feeling understood, empowered, and hopeful.
ACTION PLAN:
Time to look in the mirror. Who on your team needs better alignment with their abilities? Start the conversation.